100 Comments
User's avatar
Jed Moffitt's avatar

May I keep my wits about me sufficiently that I might guide my wandering mind toward the exit door with such grace. To some degree, with each passing day, life becomes more about this goal than any other. I speculate on just which notions might be of use in eternity, but no sense getting riled up about that. Whatever notions are useful will likely make themselves known at that time. In the meantime, I stay busy, like the speaker suggests, trying to unburden the obviously un-useful notions, of which there are a whole passel. Thanks as always for your peaceful provocations, Paul.

Expand full comment
Paul Wittenberger's avatar

I try to imagine of what use truth or wisdom might be in some changeless eternal state. I don’t see much use at all, but that’s just the ‘I’ of me that probably won’t exist in that wherever whenever.

Expand full comment
Paul Wittenberger's avatar

I meant to post this companion piece but got carried away with something else. This is called Dark Embrace: I know that death

dwells in a space

neither time

nor fortune can erase.

One day he will come

and I will not fight

that dark embrace

that whispers good night.

Expand full comment
Jed Moffitt's avatar

I remember a previous piece of yours, Paul, that made a reference to your disinclination to fight it when it came time to unravel. I am with you in this thought, and I hope to have the courage to line up my canoe with the falls in such a way as to somehow pull it off.

My thoughts are sometimes drawn to the unforgettable image of the Vietnamese monk, Thich Quang Duc, who died of self immolation some 60 years ago, as I understand the story, in protest of the Vietnamese conflict. I am sure you recall the image.

Expand full comment
Paul Wittenberger's avatar

I do remember the Vietnamese monk. That’s faith and belief joined. The previous piece is the poem to which your original comment is attached

Expand full comment
Portia's avatar

I agree, there's no need to rage against the dying of light. The final rest's darkness is quiet and beautiful.

Expand full comment
Paul Wittenberger's avatar

I'm with you, Portia. If you want to be defiant, be defiant when it counts for something, not when it's time to leave.

Expand full comment
Portia's avatar

Yeah, you tell'em, Paul!

Expand full comment
Kim Nelson's avatar

With form and honed diction this poem captures the tone of Dylan Thomas with a message quite opposed. A lyrical, dense piece!

Expand full comment
Paul Wittenberger's avatar

Thanks for the wonderful comment, Kim!

Expand full comment
Diane’s Blue Forum 👩‍💻's avatar

Paul, this one speaks to my aging body and an attitude I never thought I would have toward the big question. How must I approach these next months and hopefully years. Ideally with grace and wisdom. You said it all💕

Expand full comment
Paul Wittenberger's avatar

Many of us are getting closer and closer to that final breath and I don't want mine to be a scream. If we can find the grace and wisdom to accept an end that has always been there, it's as good an approach as any. Thank you!

Expand full comment
Paul McCutchen's avatar

The poem has more meaning the older I get.

Expand full comment
Paul Wittenberger's avatar

The Dylan Thomas poem?

Expand full comment
Paul McCutchen's avatar

No the one you wrote

Expand full comment
Paul Wittenberger's avatar

Well, thank you, Paul. It's really about acceptance of the end (in whatever way that's meaningful for a reader) rather than fighting against what we've always known was going to happen.

Expand full comment
Geraldine A. V. Hughes's avatar

And that’s liberating. “I will fight no more, forever.” Hinmaton-yalatkit — Chief Joseph of the Nez Perce

Expand full comment
Paul Wittenberger's avatar

Thanks to @Mahdi Meshkatee for this restack.

Expand full comment
Paul Wittenberger's avatar

Thank you for restacking this, @Jane Deegan

Expand full comment
Jane Deegan's avatar

You’re welcome!

Expand full comment
Paul Wittenberger's avatar

Thank you for restacking this, @Sarah Warden and for your brilliant and searing Three Days Before Christmas.

Expand full comment
Patris's avatar

Your gentle voice and unhurried cadence as you read this provides the counterpart to Dylan’s poem that I memorized when I first read it. Perfect.

Expand full comment
Paul Wittenberger's avatar

I love listening to Thomas, the Welsh lilt that carries the words swirling through the air. When I was in a theater group in another life, we performed a reading of Under Milk Wood and we listened to an audio recording by Thomas to prepare. Wonderful experience.

Expand full comment
Patris's avatar

I can only imagine that immersion in it. Did you know Richard Burton participated in one of the first theater productions of it?

I was introduced to Thomas by a very (and perpetually) hung-over English prof (Dr. King) who was my high school freshman lit teacher (and my next year’s). He assigned us this poem - had us read it aloud - and our homework was to write a page about it. I remember because the next morning in class Dr. King he’d told us that he had once gone drinking with Dylan’s Thomas (in London I think). “The honor of my life.”

Expand full comment
Paul Wittenberger's avatar

Smile at the prof’s brush with fame. Burton was Welsh and he had the voice and what a voice it was!

Expand full comment
Patris's avatar

It’s true! I almost saw him in Camelot in Broadway (school trip) in 1962 I think.. I remember his understudy was playing Arthur that day and we were SO disappointed! It was Richard Harris! (Who was young and wonderful)

Expand full comment
Paul Wittenberger's avatar

Didn’t Harris also star as Arthur in the movie version? He was riding high at that time, had a hit song with Jimmy Webb’s MacArthur Park.

Expand full comment
Patris's avatar

I think he did! Though I was still disappointed. (Robert Goulet was in it too. - remember him?) When I think about it - given I was 12 - maybe my granddaughter’s love for the Arctic Monkeys is not so weird…. Hmmmm

Expand full comment
Paul Wittenberger's avatar

I sang “ If Ever I Would Leave You” to my wife on her 50th birthday 2012 - big party, dinner/drinks for 50.

Expand full comment
Geraldine A. V. Hughes's avatar

I remember Robert Goulet!

Expand full comment
Oma Rose's avatar

This is the BEST! I am also there and welcome the unknown to be when it occurs. More people could become 'at peace' with the final acts. Thank you for this - it is wonderful!

Expand full comment
Paul Wittenberger's avatar

Thank you, Oma Rose!

Expand full comment
Rolando Andrade's avatar

Another heart-warming poem Paul. I feel is not a poem about death, but a poem that is a life lesson, a guide to living life calmly, well expressed in the words

"I will not rage

When life decides

To turn the page"

Expand full comment
Paul Wittenberger's avatar

Thank you, Rolando

Expand full comment
Kimberly Warner's avatar

Thank you!!! I’ve always been uncomfortable with Dylan Thomas’ approach!

Expand full comment
Paul Wittenberger's avatar

Thank you for reading and commenting, Kimberly. Thomas’s poem charts a different direction and that’s OK, but this is the path I would choose to take.

Expand full comment
Martin Mc Carthy's avatar

I think age has a lot to do with it, Kimberley. Dylan Thomas was only 39 when he died. So, of course, he is going to rage against death with so much more to be done.The drink probably fuelled his rage as well. Great poet nevertheless.

Expand full comment
Paul Wittenberger's avatar

Absolutely a great poet!

Expand full comment
Kimberly Warner's avatar

Indeed! We each have our own walk toward the inevitable.

Expand full comment
David MacGregor's avatar

Death said Hegel

Relying on thousands of years of philosophy

While recognizing that modern freedom

Is quite new

Is freedom's final escape

Expand full comment
Paul Wittenberger's avatar

Hegal had something to say about everything...and we're still listening.

Expand full comment
David MacGregor's avatar

He did!

Expand full comment
rena's avatar

Peaceful meditation

Expand full comment
Paul Wittenberger's avatar

Thank you, rena!

Expand full comment
Douglas Lloyd Peck's avatar

Wonderfully expressive and poignant, skillfully written. I hope you like how I presented it in Crown Valley Quarterly:

https://liveyosemite.wordpress.com/2024/02/23/science-and-technology/

Expand full comment
Paul Wittenberger's avatar

I’m speechless, Douglas. How special this is, how beyond the norm. I’m am honored to be included in this publication. Thank you 😊🙏

Expand full comment
Douglas Lloyd Peck's avatar

I'm thinking about signing up for the Premium version of Wordpress to use their tools for increasing your followers with SEO skills, etc. Beautiful works like yours deserve the widest possible audience.

Expand full comment
Douglas Lloyd Peck's avatar

Is the AI-generated photo ok?

Expand full comment
Paul Wittenberger's avatar

The photo is fine. I’ve used AI-generated images in some of my work sometimes.

Expand full comment
Sarah Warden's avatar

Beautiful, Paul

Expand full comment
Paul Wittenberger's avatar

Thank you, Sarah—high praise, indeed!

Expand full comment